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That is what a man decides somewhere around forty. Not out loud. He just stops expecting it, and then he lives like it is true. He stops asking. He stops telling anyone the truth. He carries it.
This is men coming.
Every dollar goes to three things: the books a man writes in, the training that produces a facilitator, and the men who cannot pay for either.
Every circle at one congregation for a full year. Materials for sixty men, facilitators trained and certified, and a church that had nothing structural for its men now has something that works and keeps working after you are gone.
Give $5,000Highest leverage
Train, certify, and equip one facilitator, with enough workbooks for three group launches. He does not lead one group. He leads them for years, and the men he raises go on to lead their own. One gift, compounding.
Give $1,500Twelve men and the man leading them, for a full year. A dozen marriages with someone finally asking the hard question. A dozen sets of kids who get a different father at the end of it.
Give $500A full year in his hands. He asked for help with the money and was not asked to explain himself, prove anything, or produce a pay stub. He asked, and you answered.
Give $39Give monthly
Thirty-nine dollars a month is one man, every month, for as long as you keep it up. Twelve men a year. Sixty over five years. You will never meet most of them.
Monthly giving is what lets us tell a church yes without checking a balance first, and it is the only reason we can promise that no man is turned away over money.
In this program, the top marker a man can earn is Fire Carrier. It goes to the man who finished, got certified, and went back out to lead a circle of his own.
Our monthly givers carry the same name, because they are doing the same thing from the other side. They are the reason there is a fire for him to carry.
One man
Out loud, in front of six other men, in the first hour. He had never said it to anyone, including his wife.
Nobody fixed it for him that night. He wrote down what he actually wanted, named the one thing he had been avoiding for years, and picked two things he would do every week that he could not talk his way out of. Then six men asked him about it. Every week. For a year.
At the next annual he rated it an eight. That is not a testimony about a book. It is what happens when a man writes the truth down and somebody will not let him forget he wrote it.
Details changed. The numbers are his.
Why this multiplies
Fifteen years later it is a method, a curriculum, and a certification. Here is the part that matters for your gift: every man who finishes a full year can be trained to raise the next circle.
That is not a fundraising line. It is how the program is built. A facilitator is not hired, he graduates. Which means a gift that produces one facilitator does not produce one group. It produces every group he ever leads, and every facilitator those groups raise after him.
Money spent on materials helps a man. Money spent on facilitators changes how many men there are to help.
One time or monthly. Tell us the amount and we will follow up personally, the same day.
Every gift goes to materials, facilitator training, and sponsorships for men who cannot pay.
No paid staff. No salaries. Churches host free and are never billed. Facilitators are volunteers from inside the congregation.
Cover a church that cannot pay. Fund a facilitator by name. Give stock or a donor-advised fund grant. Tell us what you have in mind.
Thou Mayest Incorporated is a Florida nonprofit corporation and a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization. Contributions are tax-deductible to the extent allowed by law.