THOU MAYEST,
I WILL.

Goal setting and accountability for men

A brotherhood where a man writes the vision for his life, sets real goals, and is held to his word by other men. Every week. For a year.

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“Where there is no vision,
the people perish.”
Proverbs 29:18

The men in your church are drifting.

They will tell you they are fine long after they have stopped being fine. They set goals in January and break them by February. They lead at work and drift at home. Almost no one asks them whether they did what they said they would.

15%

of American men have no close friends, up from 3% in 1990.Survey Center on American Life

1 in 4

men aged 15 to 34 felt lonely for much of the previous day.Gallup, 2025

+25%

rise in the U.S. male suicide rate between 2001 and 2021.U.S. CDC

27%

of men have six or more close friends, down from 55%.Survey Center on American Life

1 in 4

U.S. children grow up without their father in the home.U.S. Census Bureau

−37%

drop in time Americans spend with friends, 2014 to 2023.American Time Use Survey

Men are not short on information.
They are short on other men who will hold them to it.

Writing a goal down makes a man 42% more likely to reach it. Writing it down and reporting weekly to another person nearly doubles it again. That mechanism is the entire program.

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